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Free · 10 questions · 2 minutesYour dating red and green flags
Everyone has a list of green flags and dealbreakers, but few people know which one really drives their choices. Ten real dating situations reveal the value you care about most, the red flags you spot first, and the blind spot to watch.
6 possible results. Which one is you?
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Each result has a full page: what it means, the signs, what to watch for and how to bring it into your next date.
The Consistency Keeper
Your top green flag is consistency: people who do what they say, keep plans and show the same interest on Tuesday as on Saturday.
Read the full resultThe Honesty Seeker
Your top green flag is honesty: people who are clear about what they want, tell the truth when it's awkward, and don't play games.
Read the full resultThe Kindness Spotter
Your top green flag is kindness: people who are respectful to everyone, including waiters, strangers and their exes.
Read the full resultThe Curiosity Fan
Your top green flag is curiosity: people who ask real questions, listen to the answers and want to discover new things with you.
Read the full resultThe Growth Believer
Your top green flag is growth: people who can apologise, talk about their feelings and learn from their past.
Read the full resultThe Joy Hunter
Your top green flag is joy: people who laugh easily, don't take themselves too seriously and turn a normal evening into an adventure.
Read the full resultHow the test works
Each of the ten questions offers one answer per value, in a different order in each question: half describe green flags, half describe red flags. Your result counts how often each value came up. It is a reflection tool, not a psychological assessment.
How FindLove.ai uses your result
Your top values are saved to your matching profile, so your AI matchmaker can favour people who show the green flags you care about most. Nothing is sent to us unless you join the waitlist or save the result to your account, and other members never see your answers.
Frequently asked questions
What is a green flag in dating?
A behaviour that suggests someone will be good for you in a relationship: keeping plans, honesty about intentions, kindness to others, curiosity, the ability to apologise, a sense of humour. A red flag is the opposite, a sign of trouble ahead.
Does my result mean I should ignore other red flags?
No. Your result shows which value you weigh most, not the only one that matters. Safety red flags, like pressure, controlling behaviour or disrespect of your boundaries, matter for everyone, whatever your profile.
How is my result calculated?
Each question offers one answer per value. Your top value is the one you chose most often, and the breakdown shows how all six compare. Ties are broken by the first two questions, which are about real first date moments.
How does FindLove.ai use my result?
If you join the waitlist or log in, your top values are added to your matching profile, so your AI matchmaker can favour people who show the green flags you care about. Your result is never shown to other members.
Do you store my answers?
Not unless you choose to. Your answers stay in your browser until you join the waitlist or save them to your account.
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