Stop swiping. Your AI matchmaker plans the date.
Answer one fun questionnaire. FindLove.ai finds compatible people, balances the table, books a quiet venue within your budget and sends the invite. You just show up.
Dating apps turned romance into a second job.
Hours of swiping, chats that fade out, and first dates that feel like interviews. You deserve fewer, better dates.
Judging people in half a second by their photos is a terrible way to find someone you will love talking to.
Small talk, slow replies, then silence. Most matches never turn into an actual date.
Wrong age, wrong intentions, wrong venue. And you organized all of it yourself.
78% of dating app users report feeling burned out (Forbes Health and OnePoll survey of 1,000 US adults, 2024). 44% of singles say they want AI to help filter their matches (Singles in America, 2025).
Answer once. Just show up.
Your AI does the dating admin. You bring the chemistry.
Answer one fun questionnaire
Three minutes about who you are, who you want to meet and how you like to date. After each date, a few quick questions teach your matchmaker what really works for you.
Your AI matches and plans
It finds compatible people, balances genders and ages, picks a quiet venue within your budget and sends everyone the invite. No chats to manage.
Just show up
Confirm in one tap and enjoy the evening. After group dinners, a private double opt-in turns mutual interest into a 1:1 date.
Every member verified. Every table balanced.
We designed FindLove.ai around everything people hate about modern dating.
Balanced tables, every time
Gender parity and strict age bands are guaranteed before an invite goes out.
Every member verified
ID check before your first date. Real people, real intentions.
Pay per evening
No subscription trap. You pay for evenings that actually happen.
No-show deposit
A small deposit holds your seat, so nobody waits alone at the table.
Curated quiet venues
Places where you can hear each other, chosen within your budget.
A human on the day
Running late or need help? A real person on our team is reachable.
Private double opt-in
After group dinners, only mutual interest turns into a 1:1 date.
Serious relationships only
Not an AI companion. Not a friendship app. Real dates, real people.
Dating apps
- Swipe for hours
- Chat with strangers who vanish
- Plan, book and pay for every date yourself
- Subscriptions that profit when you stay single
FindLove.ai
- Answer once, your AI keeps learning
- Invitations to real, well matched dates
- Venue, timing and invites handled for you
- Pay per evening, no subscription
Pick how you like to meet.
From an intimate dinner for two to a lively table of six. Your AI suggests the format that fits your personality.
Dinner for two
A quiet table and a compatible person, chosen by your AI, booked for you.
Drinks for two
Low pressure, one hour, easy to extend if the conversation flows.
Group of 4
Two women and two men, or the balance that fits the table. Relaxed and intimate.
Group of 6
A lively curated dinner. Strict age bands, perfectly balanced seats.
Activities and events
Wine tastings, workshops and walks, for people who bond by doing.
Take the dating style test to see your best format See all dating tests
Designed so you can relax and be yourself.
Safety is not a feature we add later. It is how the whole experience works.
Invitations open city by city.
We open a city once we can promise balanced tables. Founding members get priority invites to the first dinners.
Barcelona
Pilot cityEarly access is open. Become a founding member in Barcelona and get priority invites to the first dinners.
Brussels
Opening soonInvitations open city by city. Founding members in Brussels get the first seats when tables are ready.
Amsterdam
Opening soonInvitations open city by city. Founding members in Amsterdam get the first seats when tables are ready.
Paris
Opening soonInvitations open city by city. Founding members in Paris get the first seats when tables are ready.
London
Opening soonInvitations open city by city. Founding members in London get the first seats when tables are ready.
Lisbon
Opening soonInvitations open city by city. Founding members in Lisbon get the first seats when tables are ready.
New York
Opening soonInvitations open city by city. Founding members in New York get the first seats when tables are ready.
Miami
Opening soonInvitations open city by city. Founding members in Miami get the first seats when tables are ready.
Your city?
Vote with your signupNot listed yet? Join and tell us where you are. The most requested cities open next.
Pay per evening. No subscription trap.
Apps make more money when you stay on them. We only earn when you actually go on a date.
You pay for the evenings you choose to attend. Final prices are announced before the first invitations, with the best price for founding members.
It holds your seat and protects everyone's evening from last minute no-shows. Exact terms come with launch pricing.
No card, no commitment. Just your answers, so your matchmaker can start learning.
Questions, answered.
What is FindLove.ai?
FindLove.ai is an AI matchmaker for real world dates. You answer one questionnaire, and your AI matchmaker finds compatible people, picks the format, books a quiet venue within your budget and sends the invites. After each date it asks a few short questions so the next match is even better.
Is this another dating app?
No swiping, no endless chat. You do not browse profiles. You get a small number of well matched invitations to dinners, drinks, activities or 1:1 dates, and you confirm in one tap.
Is it for serious relationships?
Yes. FindLove.ai is for people who want a real relationship. It is not an AI companion and it is not a friendship app. The AI organizes the dating, the chemistry happens between real people.
How do the group dinners work?
Tables of 4 or 6 people are gender balanced and use strict age bands, so everyone is in a similar stage of life. After the evening, each person privately says who they would like to see again. Only mutual interest leads to a 1:1 date, nobody is ever told about a one sided choice.
Which cities are open?
Barcelona is our pilot city. Brussels, Amsterdam, Paris, London, Lisbon, New York and Miami are next, and invitations open city by city. If your city is not listed, join anyway and tell us where you are: the most requested cities open first.
How much will it cost?
You will pay per evening, with no subscription. A small deposit holds your seat and is there to protect everyone from no-shows. Final prices will be announced before the first invitations, and founding members will get the best launch price.
How do you keep it safe?
Every member is verified with an ID check before their first date. Venues are curated, public and quiet. A real person on our team is reachable on the day of every date. We do not ask for ID or photos to join the waitlist.
What happens to my answers?
They are stored securely in the EU and used only to plan your future matches and to decide which cities to open next. We do not sell your data and you can ask us to delete it at any time at contact@findlove.ai. The waitlist privacy notice has the details.
Can I move up the waitlist?
Yes. After you join you get a personal invite link. Friends who join with your link move you closer to the first invitations in your city, and it helps us fill balanced tables faster.
Who can join?
Single adults aged 18 and over who are looking for a serious relationship. Tables are built around age bands, so you will always meet people close to your own stage of life.
Fewer, better dates.
Join the waitlist in two minutes. Founding members get priority invites in their city.
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