LGBTQ
FindLove score
7.5 / 10
HER
Community-led dating app for lesbian, bi, queer, and trans people
Best for
Queer women, trans, and non-binary people who want community plus dating, not a male-dominated grid
Not for
Cis men looking to browse queer women's profiles
How it works
- 01 Dating, groups, and events aimed at LGBTQ+ members
- 02 Profile and community spaces rather than a gay-male grid
- 03 Cis men are not the intended audience
- 04 iOS and Android apps plus web presence at weareher.com
Pros
- Built around queer women and gender-diverse members, not as an afterthought
- Community and events sit next to dating, which some users prefer
- Clearer cultural fit than using Tinder filters alone
Cons
- Pool can be small outside cities
- Bot and spam complaints show up in public reviews
- Premium is often needed for full discovery
Pricing
Free core app plus premium (verify current HER plans in-app)
Verdict FindLove
Best first stop for queer women and many non-binary daters. Keep OkCupid or Feeld as a backup in thin cities.